maybe you should set aside time for yourself to relax after your therepy sessions alone outside of the house. maybe a half hour each day. sorry i dont know what you mean by your mh issues. Im new to learning all the psychology terms used here. Is your husband giving u such grief because he is mentally ill or just selfish? also maybe u could also set aside maybe a half hour each day to just relax with him and reconnect. i know ur kids need u but u need u too! so try to make time for u alone and with ur husband. i hope u will get things worked out good luck