Thank you Innerzone for understanding. I'm glad you got good care in the end for you and your baby.

On a different topic, did anyone ever see the episode of Frasier where Daphne is pregnant, and she and Niles hire a "doula"? Eventually Daphne just cracks in the face of all the unwarranted advice, and turfs the doula out of the house. Made me laugh anyway... "Niles, stop acting pregnant. You're a man."