Squiggle, I just read her response. I think its pretty wonderful.

She addressed everything honestly, but gently. She wasn't judgmental, critical, or disgusted...she was harsh in a great way. I think she's extremely interested and willing to work through this with you. Actually, I think she's more than interested and willing, she WANTS to do this...and what more can you ask for? I love when my T actually WANTS to work through things with me, so I feel like I'm not talking about things he doesn't want to or wasting his time.

I know this is going to be uncomfortable for you to process and work through, but I think this is the time...it is out in the open, she knows your feelings and is comfortable with them. Don't be scared, it sounds like you are in fantastic hands.

Much love, support, and luck for tomorrow