my t is a male hes a minister also & Christian counseling i can tell him anything sometimes i like doing it for shock value but anyways i told him about my feelings & he said its very normal cuz he will have women come in & spill their detailed guts becuz he is the first man to treat them like a human. honestly my t is a wonderful person hes been with me thru crack addiction abusive marriage not doing well with managing my meds confiding things to him i asked him to please not tell doc about & hes honored every bit of it not to mention helping me with $$$ part of it theres nothin they havent heard & i know theres those sessions that seem unproductive but then other sessions r like revelations & healing i guess just ebb & flow of therapy im glad ur t is helpful too