Hello everyone,

Sorry for posting multiple threads but there's a new developement.

So, I've already told my sister her husband sexually molested me for 7 years.

Now, I feel bad because again she indirectly taunted me to have said it earlier. I'm 27 now, this happened between ages of 11 to 17.

She always taught her daughter not to be like me, in front of me, and then they'd sit there and all laugh like it was the biggest joke of the century. It used to hurt me lots.

Now AGAIN, when i told her this yesterday, then I spoke to her again today, she said "Well, if it were my daughter, she would have told me ahead of time... I guess its just different personalities...

I'm not sure how i should take that. I didn't like it. It hurt my feelings.

I told my mom, she said it was wrong she said that, and everyone is different. And I said, maybe i shoudl tell my sister that what she did a while back (which was a big thing!), I wouldn't do, but i guess its different personalities. But ofcourse, I'm not saying that..

It kept bothering me so i said its bothering me to my mother again, and this time she just yelled at me and shouted and said "NO! you're never gonna say that to her!"

WHY IS IT FAIR THAT SHE CAN SAY ANYTHING TO ME BUT IF I SAY THE SAME THING, THERES A PROBLEM???

I even told my others sister, who's hosting this pedophile in her house that if he had done this to her daughter, would she still host him?

her response "Well, I woudln't let it happen to her because I would know..."

These are such hurtful comments, I really don't like these. What do I do? Am I wrong for feeling this way?