thanks Tishie! So, this is the way it is:
I have 2 sisters, my dad, my mom.
SisterA is the pedophile's wife
SisterB is the other sister.

Told SisterB a while back: she told me not to tell anyone.
Told Mom: she believed me (well actually everyone believed me because I don't lie, and they all know that).
Told Dad: he told me not to tell anyone.
Told SisterA: and she believed me but kept saying why i didnt say it before, I wasted years of her life, how this is so personal to her (more personal to her than it is to me). asking me if i had feelings for this person, etc etc. which i think is total bull. i was a kid adn i was manipulated into this.

NOW. Eventhough everyone believes me, I don't feel anyone stands up for me and tells this bastard to get lost.
SisterB: still hosts him when he visits the city.
SisterA: never left him eventhough he was so physically and verbally abusive to her, emotionally also, cheated on her, she's independent, makes her own money, and everyone supported her to leave him but she never did. ( i honestly don't expect anything from sisterA for some reason... don't know why)

So, now that I stand up for myself and confront this sicko, everyone gets angry at me! but then there's no one else standing up either. Its like a problem to STAND UP in this family. Somehow its TOO RUDE!

I love my mom but don't get my family at times.
I had left SisterA long time back because she was very emotionally abusive to me and always supported this sicko, when he emotionally used to abuse me in front of everyone.
I left SisterB the other day.. because she still continues to host this sicko in her house and she has two small kids!

I'm sorry, not sure if you get the whole situation since I used labelling... I'm also not sure how to respond at times.

Oh, then my mom also keeps telling me i'm giving her too much stress, i'm giving her too much stress, since i've come i gave her only stress. But how is it my fault? all i did was reveal what he did, and yes that will stress her but I'm not to be blamed for it.