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Old Feb 14, 2011, 03:41 PM
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Originally Posted by Distressed2010 View Post
Oh maybe i forgot to mention. My mom gets scared easily and doesn't like when this abusive pedophile becomes abusive.. so maybe thats why she ddin't want me to confront him coz she didn't want him to abuse me further?

Because now he says hes gonna go out there and spread rumors.. and my mom won't like that at all.

I would tell you the text he sent me with the threats through PM, you would LAUGH! seriously, this guy is such a nutcase! he threatened to sue me and put false allegations on me!
I'm glad that you've been able to think sympathetically about how your mother might be frightened. Even if she never does get around to "doing the right thing" in terms of confronting what happened, at least you're able to see her as a human being, vulnerable and weak, but not herself a monster. That should help your recovery. And I'm glad you're not scared of this man... that shows growth. You're very strong you know.
Thanks for this!
Distressed2010