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Caroline said:I can't blame my parents so it must be my fault.
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Caroline -- those are NOT the only two options... It is NOT your fault. Not sure any of us can convince you of that if you can't see it for yourself, but come on... if I told this story and you read it, what would you tell me? That it IS my fault? Surely you wouldn't blame a child for something like that -- so why are you blaming your child self? Be fair and kind to yourself....

(( Caroline ))