He says I should try to find others who have been through similar circumstance, others who can relate, others who have had these thoughts/feelings and been able to overcome.

That is why I'm here - at PC

My T thought I would benefit from feedback from others who had "been there" and that it would help me not feel so alone

Sometimes I feel like I don't belong in this site - like I'm intruding in a private club where I was not invited...

I tried a Survivors of Abuse group and left in tears, T suggested something online would make me feel safer.

I know what T says, I'm looking for support/understanding from others

If I have intruded in others private sanctuary, please tell me. The last thing I want to do is invade others safety.