Thank you for your insight about my dilema. This is no doubt the roughest crossroad I've come too. My fiance' accepted this job offer he tells me it is like a step up to him career wise and a little more money though still with same co. and pretty much same position. However, my daughter and I are very close she says she doesnt want me to move that she knows I want to live near family. But,that she doesnt want me to be alone so that is how she is ok about me going.