Helley, I'm really impressed with how you're coping with the triple whammy that's hit you. I don't think I could manage it without flipping out. I'm constantly nervous of the possibility of relapse but you've inspired me to think that maybe I'll just keep getting stronger. You're a good example to us all here, and I just wanted you to know that I'm very proud of how you're handling things.
My ex is also bisexual, I know it's a difficult thing to find out. Hang on in there, and let us know how things go.