Just a thought...remember you dont "make people feel the way they do" that is their responsibilty, just as you are the one in control of how you feel. No one can make you feel (any emotion) unless you let them. I know its hard to accept and difficult to control, but it's true. You are the only one in control on how you feel, they are responsible how they feel..not you.

Glad your working things out. Keep up the good work.