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Old Feb 15, 2011, 02:24 PM
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Originally Posted by darkrunner View Post
I have talked a little bit in therapy about the trauma. She keeps saying we're going to do trauma processing but she wants me to be more stabilized in terms of my eating disorder so I don't 'crash and burn' with the added stress of the trauma work.
She shouldn't get the cart before the horse then. If she is choosing to wait to work with you on the traumas then she has to wait for you to heal enough (by working through the traumas) to let go of the feelings of victim then.
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