
Feb 15, 2011, 02:26 PM
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Member Since: Jun 2007
Location: Chicago, Illinois
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(((Whenwillitend)))
It still sounds a little like you are trying to control him by rewarding him with treats - if not, you'll take away his reward. What will he learn from this? What will you learn from this?
If you're going to keep score on his emotions and behavior, you can show him he can trust you by placing a behavior chart of your own next to his. He can reward you with points for good behavior, and take away points from you when they are bad. If you decide to do something like this, please don't let it become a competition to see who can win or lose the most points.
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