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Yeah I don't want to be treated as a victim, but I get frustrated with people telling me to think positive, and mind over matter, and choose to not allow it to affect you in this way, etc etc. It sounds so easy, but it is not for me.
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I agree totally. I think I wasn't clear. I
meant it is not like being treated as a victim is some great prize. I think your therapist is setting up some false dichotomy between being a victim and being strong. It's really an issue of compassion..
I just want to add it sounds like you
are trying your hardest to make this healiing. But it is ok in my opinion to put some of it on her.