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Feb 15, 2011, 03:22 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2008
Posts: 19,179
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Originally Posted by mixedup_emotions
The other thing that bugs me about addressing my stuff in group is that the issue never seems to really get addressed.
It's how it's supposed to work in a gestalt based group.
The focus is about the relationships in the room, and it is not about fixing people's issues.
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Your issues don't really get addressed ^ and this is triggering for you. (See below)
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Originally Posted by mixedup_emotions
Now it just feels yucky....It's like a child saying amongst a room full of family members "look at me, mommy! look at me, daddy!"...and the parents just ignoring the child...until the child screams, "LOOK AT ME!!!"....and then the parents stare at the child like, "OK, get on with it, hurry up so we can go back to what we want to do".....except, in this case, it seems like the other group T is saying, "LOOK AT HER!"...and I'm still feeling that yucky "OK, get on with it, hurry up so we can go back to what we want to do" feeling.
It just feels yucky....
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........
I'm an ISFJ
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