(((((lexi))))) we can't (well, we can but) be trying to figure out what another thinks... esp when we are so down on ourselves... so often we aren't even close to what really is/was. My mom has an issue with heavy ppl... (I'm not heavy) but that is her problem.... if she can't understand that some ppl take out problems on themselves sometimes in the form of weight, then it's her problem (too)

You be the best person you can be right now.. and if that isn't good enough for her, it's tough to think, but that is her problem. TC