Thanks, sweetie. I took your advice and sent him a txt asking if we were meeting. He called back an hour later and arranged a time to meet. I'm not really sure if I'll say anything today (or at all). He mentioned his cancer results last week were iffy, and on the phone he said he was going to the hospital on the way in and then afterwards he was meeting other people elsewhere so could I find him around there. I kind of feel like I'm being squeezed in, again, and if I didn't make the effort that he certainly wouldn't bother to have kept time to meet up. Anyway, we'll see how it goes. I definitely won't be saying anything if his cancer stuff is back though. Gosh, I hate him and worry about him and really genuinely care for him all at the same time :P.

edit: seeing him in half an hour. wish me luck & wisdom.