Your right Michah, I will focus on my instincts about this dilema I am facing. He has considered my feelings in that he understands I may not be comfortable without my daughter and he is fine doing a long distance relationship and his job may be for only a year in another state. I dunno this is so hard Im just so grateful to have all of you wonderful compassionate friends here to get through tough times like this.

God Bless,
rainwater