MUE, in the past 2 years i've been at PC, i've never seen you say a positive thing about group, but i have read many threads about group which have really angered me on your behalf.

i dont know if this is because you dont post the useful stuff (i mainly come to PC when something is wrong - not when things are going right!) but it does mean i question the value and worth of this particular group for you at this particular time, especially given your T is in a dual relationship being your group leader also and has a vested interest in keeping you in group. for someone who claims he doesn't want to be directive in group, he certainly seems to direct you to continue going...?