I hope you will keep posting if you want to, ((((Mary Alice)))). I know that I, for one, would not want you to lose a place where you can express your feelings, etc..
I'm taking good care of my own feelings about this, since I do acknowledge that back in September it was 'triggering' me, when I would worry so much, but I've been learning a lot about how to set my own boundaries and things, so I hope, and really want, to be able to be a touchstone for you and others, without becoming someone about whose 'stuff' related to this is added to your already heavy burden.
Really, my intent is not to put pressure on you, although I know that my posts, (and I), have come on strong in the past. I'm in constant learning mode, too, just like all of us.
As always, most fondly, XOXO!
<font color=blue>HI FROM PEANUT</font color=blue>