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Inkblot I have been sitting there trying to think of a way to word this that does not sound harsh and unsupportive, but please hear me out before you make that judgment.
I am very sure that your caseworker and staff probably do not understand how complex your issues are. I’m equally sure that they are doing the very best that they can to accommodate everyone. And on what I am sure is a very long list of issues they must deal with every single minute of every day, this problem must seem very minor to them. I’m not saying that the problem is minor, but in the big picture a love letter and gift compared to violence and other issues this one doesn’t rate very high on the priority list.
To YOU this is a major issue and your feelings are valid. But you are not a country unto yourself. You live in a world full of triggers, we all do. Even if you were to fall into millions of dollars tomorrow, those triggers will still be there. You will never be able to insulate yourself entirely from them. Even if you surround yourself with others that you think are just like you and understand you, issues will arise.
I’m sorry that you feel like running away, but there is nowhere you can run to that will make these things go away. It sounds like you’re finally in a safe place. Please reach out and ask your caseworker for resources to help YOU deal with your issues and teach you some coping skills.
It sounds like the staff needs some sensitivity training. In all probability this man had no idea what giving you that letter and gift would do to you. So ask the staff and caseworker HOW to deal with the fact that the man is giving you unwanted attention and it is against the rules. What should you do if you do not feel comfortable dealing with him directly? What should you do if he does not respect your refusal?
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I've been married for 24 years and have four wonderful children.
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