I am filing for divorce...just waiting a week or so to have the money for the lawyers retainer. I want to leave so bad but I don't want to in anyway help his chances of getting custody (he's told me he's going to fight me for it) and I'm afraid if I move and take my son to my parents house (which is not really all that nice in comparison to the "mansion" his family lives in) then he will throw a fit and the court is going to say it's in my sons best interests to stay in our home with him. (We're filing for irreconcible so his behaviors are not really going to even come into play.) Can't wait till this is all over...