I've been writing a lot here recently. I confronted my childhood sexual abuser, and his response has been to deny it and saying that i'm lying to everyone and he's been sending me extremely abusive texts.

I've thought of writing him a long letter, revealing his true psyche and in the end saying I forgive him (I THINK i can forgive him after I am able to reveal to him what I think-the letter).

Nothing abusive. But just plainly SHOWING him that I can see through his weaknesses and his psychological makeup, I think this would basically be called calling him out on himself (not sure..)?





I'd like to know what are everyone's views on this?

I'm not expecting him to stop the abuse after this. I just want to send this because of the anger still in me, and seriously, writing it to him and burning it doesnt work. I need to send it in order to feel better. I also want him to KNOW i can see through him. he's transparent.

Do you think this would make the situation worse and he'd get more abusive, as in physically harm me?? Or can it have the opposite effect of making him realize that he's not seen as he thinks he is and he drowns into his own self discovery?

Please let me know what you guys think, this is my only support network right now. love you guys!!