sigh. I called her. She just ate a "dogwood type sandwich" of leftover turkey and dressing and cranberry (my sister had cooked her a big meal Friday while she was down.) She invited me over... I told her it wasn't because of her that I can't come today. sigh. Told her if I went out at all it would be to go eat. (she of course insisted if I could do that, I could go see her too.) My life doesn't work that way.