My partner doesn't even seem to notice at all. I don't get the guilt trip thing from her. Actually, that would be hypocritical. She's lazy and doesn't do any housework. Thus the place is a mess and it is slowly driving me into a deeper depression because a) my disability makes housework take 3 times as long and I can't do much at a time and b) when I'm depressed (as we all know) even a piece of paper lying on the floor can become a mountain we just can't conquer.

I end up feeling guilty anyhow. She's the one bringing in the money. Thing is, our partner's aren't actually THERE to see what our day is really like, are they?