Exactly! I have the same thing - we never do couple things. She sits chatting to people on Twitter and I'll roam around the house being a freak. I never know how her day has gone (I ask and get a "yeah, alright", mostly) and she never enquires about mine. I'm trying to find work I can do, as well as my studies, and my artwork, but no support there either.
I think I'm living with a brick wall.