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Feb 17, 2011, 07:07 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Bless your heart ~ of COURSE you deserve all the things that most people have!! You deserve to be loved, to work, to have a good life. Sure I can understand the fear of failure, but who ISN'T afraid? If we fail, so what? It doesn't kill us ~ it is NOT humiliating. It's just that we tried, and it didn't work THAT time, so we'll try again! Everyone fails at one time or another -- no one is "safe" from a failure at some point in their life. But because we fail at something doesn't mean that WE are a failure. It just means that something we tried to do didn't work out! That's all.
God doesn't make junk -- so you are NOT a failure. You ARE deserving of love and you have every right to look for it! It's not going to come knocking at your door -- so you've got to get out there and make yourself open to it. It doesn't matter how old you are, or whether or not you're on disability for whatever. What matters is YOU and the fact that you are a decent, loving human being -- and there IS someone out there for you!!! And you CAN be self-employed if you want to be - or you don't have to be if you don't want!! It's whatever you choose.
This is your life -- so get out there and be seen - and know that you are worthy of love and of having a joy-filled life. Don't "settle" for what you have. God bless you. Hugs, Lee 
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