Sannah, thanks.

yeah, I never expected a good response from him, I did expect him to feel ashamed though, which he's not doing.

He's also making me relive the guilt and shame i used to feel when this happened. and that time i couldn't do anythign about it because i didnt know whats going on. Today, I'm more wise and know whats going on so i feel like I need to settle that shame and guilt he made me feel and throw it back onto him perhaps??

I am getting so angry at the texts he's sending me that I want to turn around and just slap him on his face with my letter. After that letter, if he continues to abuse me, it wouldn't bother me (i'm thinking it wouldnt) because I feel I'll have stung him where he needs to be stung.

He thinks he's very invisible and people fear him, but we don't fear him, we just avoid him coz he's such a drama queen and so abusive.

He constantly brags about money, bu tthat's the only thing he has left now, no one likes him.

Maybe this is more about me finding a way to put my anger into place and I feel whenever I speak out ilke this, it makes me feel better.

I know about the whole "write a letter and don't send" thing but it never seems to work for me unless i "tell" the other person what i think.