Improving, what you wrote is EXACTLY how it is for me!!!!!
My T agrees that my parents loved me but says my Mom and I didn't mesh right. She puts out her hands and shows how they miss each other. Or it was being in the incubator because I was a preemie.
I know I didn't get loved in the right way, I guess. Or else why would I feel so good, filled up, when T holds my hand? I'm loved and happy in the session with her!
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And gradually it's ok to say "Yes, they gave me everything but somehow it wasn't what I needed". But still... what wasn't what I needed? I don't know. What did I need that I didn't get? I don't know that either...
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Do you think, like me, it's that your Mom and you didn't fit right even though she loved you? Mine was over-protective--not good either.
