Happy the Puffer Fish made you guys chuckle ...we need that today. I agree with Gus1234 and invisigirl. Now that I know your sister(pedophiles wife) isn't supporting you, then don't talk or try to reason with her either. I know you said you're an American in a foreign country and the police aren't good. I'm thinking there might be at least a couple police officers who are good ones -ask for a female officer. The majority of the countries in our world aren't sympathetic to pedophiles. Is it possible to just call and explain, you would like to speak to someone who handles SA and child assault. Tell them you've been abused since you were 11 and now that you told you're being threatened and see what they say. I think if they warn him, he'll back off. Think about doing this and save all the texts. Tell the family members who aren't supporting you to back off. No I don't think you're being over confident - you have the right to stick up for yourself and be assertive.