This sounds almost identical to what my ex-wife and I went through for 17 years. Her doctor finally figured out that she was bipolar. Hormones of any sort, even the normal swings in levels associated with menses can turn some bipolar women in raving maniacs, literally.

You're doing the right thing consulting your doctor, just be aware that an antidepressant may actually make things worse. I strongly suggest that you all consider a mood stabilizer first, either lithium or Lamictal, which both have antidepressant properties.

Also, if you have a NAMI chapter (National Alliance on Mental Illness) in your area, I highly recommend going to support groups there, together, separately or both...it's a wonderful place to get help.

God bless you in your quest for health...PM me if you want.

DJ