somehow, today, after my session, I feel like I'm grieving too......she was her usual lovely self, but there was something there too, that I couldn't name....and something I was feeling afterward.....a need not met because I couldn't verbalize it, I am simply not understanding. And I have had so much the feeling of wanting to simply cry and cry, I didn't know why.....but reading this thread again, it makes me aware that I, too, am grieving in some way......not because she took anything away, but because I feel some sort of loss anyway. something to do with those d*** boundaries, I am sure!