if you were to do a little research, you would find that you are in a far too common situation,, this is one reason people never come forward, the covering up and the denial and the blaming the victim never stop... what he is treatening to take you to court for is Defamation,, which you have no proof that he did those things to you, and your own family will turn against you,, because of their own guilt and shame, and you will be the one burned for it ...

seriously, stop what you are doing until you find out what your supports are, what your options are, and who your friends are ~!

please be careful ~! you know pedophiles never stop with just one,, if only another would come forward,, you might have a case. best wishes,, Gus