dear missmanic,
would just like to ask if you have checked out the top of this forum. there is a place for "teen alters garden", and also "sticky's" for information about d.i.d. i know it really helped me to read more about it and i could identify my experiences better when i understood more about things to look for, such as your saying you experience losing time, wearing different sets of clothes, or having friends you don't remember. i think you are very wise for wanting to learn more about dissociative disorders, and i hope you get the help you need.
i wish you well.