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Originally Posted by Distressed2010
I do feel the urge to report to the police but he's threatened me (indirectly through my other sister) that he wants to come to my house, make me angry so i call the police, and then I should watch what he can do with the police. He wants me to do something with the police so he can bribe them and make them do what he wants.
My mom also won't let me go to the police because
1. she doesn't trust them, and thinks they might hurt me in return.
2. she doesn't want my sexual abuse to get out to outsiders, in this country, people rarely support, they usually criticize and blame who ever is the victim. Its the victim that gains a bad rep because somehow now she's suffered a tragedy and is messed up.
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As sad as it sounds.. it doesn't really seem like your family is willing to support your cause right now.. sometimes i think like invisigirl said.. you just have to make peace with that.. some people are just limited and can't cope. You seem like you're trying to cope but it honestly sounds like you're dragging yourself through more of it than you need. He's making your life miserable.. if your sisters are turning on you and housing him.. that's not anything you can control..denial is what makes families that allow this stuff so dysfunctional in the first place. find a way to focus the energy you're putting into bringing him down, into yourself.. you deserve the effort not him. He's clearly just using this as an opportunity to torture you more..