Hi, thanks for being concerned about me! Well, when my T opened the door to take me back yesterday, she already looked closer to herself. However, I did, in a polite way, tell her about the changes to her appearance were affecting me. She was very kind. She replied that "yes, it has been different in here and I have felt it too, but it is slowly righting itself." She revealed the reason for the haircut was to let some shorter layers on top grow longer-less upkeep for her with a baby and a single parent as well. She went brown temporairly to give her hair a rest from bleaching as she has been gray since grad school. "My hair is growing longer and will continue to grow and I will slowly be shifting back to my lighter shade." She was dressed in her casual wear yesterday. She said she did not address the appearance change, as she did not her pregnancy, as it is "not about me in here." She said she gave this much thought and there was no easy answer. She thanked me for talking to her about it and being willing to bring it up. I felt a lot better. After our session we went in and saw her little boy (4 months) who is on site with a caregiver. She keeps him from most clients because of privacy, but shares him with some who she says have transcended. In 2008 I had a dream where I saw her go into her office and climb into a play pen and hold a baby very close to her. I thought it was a crazy dream, but when I revealed it to her she said she was wanting a child very much. So, there is some connection somewhere. I appreciate everyone's thoughts, as it helped me decide how to handle my conflict-thank you all for listening!