Just a little update, I told my husband how I felt about his therapist and their "relationship". I told him that I thought their relationship was inappropriate, that he was manipulated into fixing her car and that I felt like she was at the root (maybe not the cause...but added fuel to the flame) of all of our recent problems. It took him a few days, but this morning he let me know that he will no longer be seeing his therapist. He told me that he doesn't understand why he did not listen to me sooner when I told him he was being manipulated. He also said that everytime he would tell her that he was done seeing her, she would push the topic of our relationship and tell him that as soon as he would separate himself from our relationship the better he would feel, that he did not want to stop seeing her that he needed to end our relationship. I told him that I did not see a problem with seeing a therapist (I will be seeing one in a few days) but she was not the right therapist for him.

We have decided to work on our relationship. We are going to relax and start communicating with each other instead of holding things in. It may take time, but I hope that we can work through all of this and live the rest of lives together.