Distressed.....hon, if your gut tells you something is amiss then it is! Always go with your gut instincts.

No married man who is faithful to his wife and family will start calling another woman "sexy" or digging for information from you about relationships and/or your sexual encounters. Can I just say, RED FLAGS ARE FLYING!!!

If this was happening to me, I would not care how helpful he could be in finding employment or connecting you to others in the field, I would drop him like a hot potato. There are many more individuals out there who you can network with that are not playing on your possible vulnerabilities.

In my opinion, he is an opportunist and looking for a conquest. "I'll do something for you if you do something for me" comes to my mind.

Please be careful and take care of YOU! You have every right to assert yourself in this instance and it may mean the difference between being used and being safe.

With respect,
sabby