Hi there, I'm quite new here, recently officially diagnosed with boarderline. This has been undetetcted for some thirty years, Dr.s and p.Dr's saying I was anorexic/eating disordered and that was the only problem, basically no one wanted to know, regardless of being admitted for inpatient treatment many times some twenty years ago (overdoses/self harm). Had there been a diagnosis nearer the begining it would have saved my parents and family, not to mention me, years of heartache. Yes, I totally understand 'LovebirdsFlying' in saying that some so called 'professionals' in the medical world don't click with some of us and just do not want to help. If they don't know what to say or do then they blame us with the ''problem'' regardless. This is very hurtful and leaves us with no one to turn to. I speak from the UK so I guess this is a worldwide issue. This site is excellent and it's the only place that I have found the essential info that I desperatly needed. Thankyou and hugs to you all reading this. XXX