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Old Dec 26, 2005, 10:02 PM
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This week my daughter told me about an inappropriate incident with my husband while he was visiting here at our home...I immediately told her that this was wrong and noone has the right to treat her this way..I then called her therapist(for 2 years now), explained what happened and requested an immediate appt..The next morning I went to my own therapy session and told my T about what happened..She accused my husband of being a P and said that I should make an appt with my daughters T..She also said that I should maybe report it to the authorities here. I asked if it was illegal and she said it was inappropriate..I then said that I was afraid my husband would commit S, if I reported it, but that I would talk to my daughters' T and do what was right..This was my second session with this T..I met with my daughters therapist 2 days later.She had a regular session with my daughter and then I went in..She repeated the same thing that my daughter had told me and I had told my T.. She also said that the authorites here would prob do nothing about what happened because though it was inappropriate, it was not illegal..Well my T reported it to the authorities here, and added to the story...There is one thing that would make it illegal and s/a here(touch) and she reported that this happened...I NEVER said that to her..I called my daughters T the night my daughter told me what had happened and never said this...My t session was the next day, and I never said that...The authorites are involved now, and I have the actual report..My T did not repeat what I said...the story has been embellished...She also reported that I did not want the authorities to be notified which is not true..I was sharing my fear in my own therapy session with my feelings about what my husband would do..Never did I say that I would not or did not want it reported..I also signed a release that day so my T could speak with my daughters T..I am now being investigated which honestly doesnt upset me..At least my county takes these things seriously, and children are safe..But I am so very upset..My T (who I will no longer see) reported a lie..The comment about touch was never uttered from my lips...and because she said it to be truth,it is the reason this is happening..I can deal with that, but I am seriously considering filing a complaint with my state..THIS WAS AN OUTRIGHT LIE...I shared with this T that my H liked when I was skinny and she said that was a sign of a Ped...I am struggling with this...really need some advice...Should I just let it go? But when I think about doing that, I think about how I have kept silent my whole life...thank you for any advice?