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Originally Posted by KathyM
You are a sexual fantasy to him - something to devour when he's hungry - and he's trying see if he's got a shot at making his fantasy come true.
Men get a little bored after they "conquer" a wife, because it's the chase and anticipation that excites them so. He still feels like a "stud," so he sniffed you out. If he's successful, he can brag to his friends that he got a fresh piece of *** without his wife ever knowing - better yet, he got both of you to sit down at his table together.
You'd be of good use to him when he's away from his wife and wants a free and friendly "hooker." - you can keep his "belly warm" with casual sex, free of charge and consequences (uh-huh). He's assuming he can get really "freaky" with you and do things his wife would never allow him to do - or try.
I have a married friend who constantly flirts with me right in front of my husband - asking me when I'm going to leave my husband and run off with him. He knows damn well it's a joke - but he keeps testing the water nonetheless. 
Whenever he asks when I'm going to run away with him in front of my husband, I just tell him "Honey, you would NEVER be able to handle me - I've already got my man." 
If/when he pushes it further, I simply tell him - "Let's bring your wife Diane into this picture and she what SHE has to say about you having "casual" sex with a young "babydoll" while you'r'e out there picking up her medications and providing for her needs." 
If this guy continues to push it with you, the next time you are all sitting at the dinner table together - ask him out loud in front of his wife "Why would you need casual sex from me?" OR - you could ask his wife "What would you do if someone told you your husband had a mistress?" They can then talk it over among themselves while you eat your dessert!
If you don't want all the hassle - break off the "friendship" altogether. If not, he will probably become outraged and jealous if you ever meet a boyfriend - because he wants to keep you in his pocket, away from his wife. 
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LOL. Thanks Kathy. He did email me after that dinner but i never responded. He'll probalby try emailing me again, to which I'm gonna ignore again!
And if he asks why I'm not emailing back, I'll probably tell him I felt uncomfortable with him questioning my personal life.
That night, I kept telling him, okay now i feel weird. This was a weird conversation, etc..
I also told him i found casual sex disgusting and he looked offended, as in he's like well to each his own. and i was like, yeah, but its still disgusting to me..