Distressed,

A guys point-of-view here...

ANY time a guy says or does ANYTHING that is not respectful to you AS A WOMAN or makes you feel uncomfortable, drop him like a he is on fire! He knows what he is doing! He is NOT making any innocent or innocuous comments. What he is doing is intentional and intended to intimidate you. It absolutely is predatory behavior that should not be tolerated in any way. The guy is a scum bag piece of trash!

I've read other posts here where people talked about what you should say to him when he treats you like a piece of meat... My advice is to say NOTHING to him. He deserves no response! - Simply turn around and walk away with all of the self confidence you can muster! You are doing a good thing! Tell yourself that as you walk away. You are acting in your own best interests!! You are a special, wonderful person! If you walk away from him he'll do his best to try to make you think that you are being too touchy or too sensitive or *****y or any other thing that he can think of the make you LESS OF A WOMAN and at fault. It's all he can do. Ignore all of those predatory lines...regardless of how innocent he tries to make himself appear, and he will. He KNOWS how to play on your emotions and exploit them to get what he wants from you. Do NOT worry about hurting his feelings. Do NOT be concerned about what he might think of you. That's what he'l planning on! He KNOWS that women are usually willing to compromise themselves in order to avoid a confrontation.

Oh yes, he will parade all of his wounded innocence before you like an injured bird. He will tell you how much you have hurt him. He will tell you that he can't understand how you could act that way to him because all he ever did was ...blah blah blah blah...

Trust me. It's all a ploy.

You deserve better. YOU are not at fault for any of his abuse. YOU did not cause ANY of this. HE is a predator and YOU are his prey. It's just that simple. It can't be any plainer than that.

If you hang around and not distance yourself from him in all regards, he will think that you WANT his attention an are encouraging his sexual pursuit. In his mind, you are just playing the "game" and are being "hard to get". That will only stiffen his resolve to have you.

Distressed, I can not state this forcefully enough - Get away from him. You are nothing but his prey and his plaything. You have NO future with him !!

Here, read my lips: GET - AWAY - FROM - HIM

Oh, one last thing. Listen to your intuition. It can be your best friend! It will NOT steer you wrong.
You are here asking some very troubled questions. What does that tell you about what your intuition is telling you. Hmmm? Listen... can you hear it? Yes, it IS your intuition speaking to you!!