Distressed - You're absolutely in your right to get away and/or tell him that he's crossing lines and being inappropriate if you feel he is. Don't get me wrong, I think if you feel uncomfortable then you're well within your right to remove him from your life. Based on everything you've said he seems to be overstepping his boundaries and is being disrespectful and rude so I absolutely support the fact that you should create some distance and do what you need to in order to feel safe and comfortable.

My comments were more directed at everyone else who responded. I just feel we are a tad too fast to jump and assume the worst in people, and while I am a highly cynical person and am often critical of people, I do believe that we should not assume that someone has the worst intentions. Sometimes what we view as negative actions may be coming from something innocent. I am not defending this man, but just saying that while these actions make you uncomfortable and are over the top, it may be something more acceptable to him. He may come from a culture where his actions are appropriate by his standards, but not ours.