I've been physically ill lately. Sometimes when this happens, it interferes with metabolism of my medications. Especially if I get sick to my stomach or have what I'll delicately call "digestive distress," my medication may be ejected, or pass through my system too fast, and I don't get the full benefit.

I warned my husband that since this is happening to me, I might start acting a little strangely because my med levels will be off. He reacted, "Well, try not to. That's one of the roughest parts of being married to you."

Any time I need psychological help, it seems like he focuses more on the inconvenience to him than he does on what I might be feeling. All he talks about is how much it's going to cost him to pay the medical bill, how much trouble it is to take me to the hospital, whatever. I told him, "If you think it's hard being you in that situation, try being me." But he doesn't get it. He expects me to just decide to be normal.

Am I being *oversensitive,* or is he being *undersensitive*?