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Old Feb 19, 2011, 03:05 AM
IceCreamKid IceCreamKid is offline
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Originally Posted by puzzclar View Post
I don't know anything else besides how I am.... I need to change away from the depressed person that I've become..... but how??

Changing how I think is a slow process.... and I feel like I need to change faster than that.... but how??
I'm not sure about "changing faster" but one thing that I found helpful was to consciously reject negative thoughts. If was ruminating on how mean my boss was, I would stop, tell myself I didn't have to think about that anymore, and deliberately start thinking about something pleasant. I reinforced those pleasant thoughts with seeking out pleasant healthy activities: walking outdoors in the fresh air, listening to good music, seeing fun movies. Try to focus on one do-able change at a time.
Thanks for this!
online user, SophiaG