Sometimes I think I am not using common sense with therapy. Kinda like, "Let sleeping dogs lie!"

In other words....don't disturb a situation that is going well, as it may result in trouble or complications. Do not say something or do something that would cause someone else to be angry or to make trouble. If that metaphorical dog is just laying there asleep, leave him be. Don't go messing with him or he might wake up and bite you!