I feel like I am the one who has been used here. Cheating on me, neglecting me, and refusing to work out our marriage. What about him and the example he is setting for the kids? I have tried to do everything to save the marriage. I may not work outside the home,but I do have a big job, schooling the kids, cleaning the house, doing all the yard work, I basically do EVERYTHING to do with the house and the kids. I am not just sitting around doing whatever I want. Just never mind, I don't need this. I feel I am doing the best think for my kids and for me at least for 4 or 5 more years.