as has been said already, its hard to tell whats reality and whats someones distorted cognivity...if what you are saying is real then this T isn't fit to practise and you have to make the decision to get out of this relationship..as an adukt you havee that abilty..but if this is a cognivitive distortion that feels real to you at this moment then talking about all this thoughts and feelings with T is what therapy is about.....I find it hard to beleiieve that some therapys Are as awful as what is posted at times...Sorry if this isn't helpful but from what I know from my own therspy I find some of the things said here hard to understand...