One of my alters goes to work for me. She is this outgoing, empathetic, smart, assertive, and get down to business person. Unlike my usual passive and introvert self. Lately, I have noted that she has been comments from this resident doctor; and she has been flirting with him. He seeks me out on the unit that I am working on just to stop and talk to me, which is disruptive to my work, but my alter doesn't mind. I am already in a happy marriage, I don't need this relationship with this doctor. How do I make this relationship between her and the doctor stop or at least cool down so that they are continue to be nothing more than acquaintances?